A Montessori Heart

"One test of the correctness of educational procedure is the happiness of the child itself." Maria Montessori

1.31.2010

Saving Myself 19 Dollars

For a little while, I have been wanting to replace my cramped and glaringly white plastic dish rack with a wooden dish drying rack. I saw one at Target for 20 bucks.
Today I was at a local thrift store looking for loaf pans when "Eurika!" I found a wooden dish drying rack for ONE dollar!
Can you believe the discrepancy in cost?!

If I can avoid it, I'm going to avoid Target.

1.25.2010

Happy Child Happy World

I am currently reading E.M.Standing's biography of Maria Montessori, which should be read by anyone interested in the method (second only to those written by Maria herself). Standing insists that the problem with early education is the terrible relationship between the adult and the child and that the solution exits in the healing of this relationship.
No matter how well built a school is, their low windows and shelves, or how awash with extracurricular activities, the strength of a school is in the happiness of the child and the calm of the teacher.
I know a little school with handmade cards and counters, the bead stair and the like, the hall is drafty and badly lit, but the bond between the teachers and the children is obvious. It is the only school I've visited thus far where a child was generous without restraint and without coercion. One child spent a good part of this morning on a detailed drawing only to give to me, a stranger, before I left.

1.15.2010

What's real capability?

Dr. Montessori writes in The Abosorbent Mind that a successful teacher must have, "a kind of faith that the child will reveal himself through work. She must free herself from all preconcieved ideas concerning the levels at which children may be."

I've had the opportunity to experience the hitches in having such prejudices against a child's age.
Every day after lunch, my lead teacher gathers to her table the older ones to whittle them with "big" worksheets. Once, early in the year, my director had all the almost-six-year-olds into her office for a competence test. She made excuse for the test by saying that when she was a teacher she would push-push-push the kids with difficult work and they would always succeed. It was a geometry worksheet. The child has to read the tiny print directions aloud, label with their own writing the geometric shapes (rhombus, trapezoid, etc.), and answer questions (How many sides does a Pentagon have?). My lead sent along her oldest boy for testing and he did well. He's an affable and disciplined little boy, whose parents own an ice cream shop. A few weeks later, much to our surprise, this boy celebrated his fifth birthday. My lead had thought he was turning six when all along he was turning only five.
So the little four year was pushed-pushed-pushed and accomplished work that wouldn't have been given to him if my lead had realized how young he was.

So when he was pushed he succeeded with the difficult work but do we call this actual success if he was pushed into it? Do we consider him capable of difficult work if he was pushed?

Can he do such work independently? Or must he always be pushed? Is that how we indicate his capabilites?